In short: the best questions to ask a psychic are open-ended, focused on you, and tied to a specific time frame. For example: “How will my love life unfold between now and summer?” rather than “Is he coming back?”. Pick one to three topics, no more. Below you'll find 40 examples sorted by situation, the questions to avoid, and the signs of a trustworthy psychic.
Maybe this sounds familiar. A question has been going round in your head for weeks. You talk it over with friends and family, you go in circles, you sleep badly. So you decide to book a reading. And just as you're about to book, your mind goes blank: what on earth am I going to ask? And what if I get scammed?
This guide is for exactly that moment. It helps you put words to what you're going through, ask the questions that will genuinely help you, and go into your reading with peace of mind.
Do you recognize yourself in one of these situations?
- “I don't even know where to start.” Go straight to the three-step method just below.
- “I'm afraid of wasting my session.” Pick from the 40 ready-to-use questions.
- “I've had a reading before and came away unsatisfied.” Check the list of questions to avoid: that's often where things go wrong.
- “I'm scared of being scammed.” Read the section on the signs of a trustworthy psychic before booking anything.
How to phrase a good question in 3 steps
1. Empty your head onto a sheet of paper
Write down everything that's on your mind, without sorting it: your relationship, your job, your mother, the money that isn't coming in… Then circle the two or three things weighing on you the most. Those are the ones that deserve your session. With more topics than that, each one only gets skimmed.
2. Turn your “yes or no” questions into open questions
A closed question only calls for a yes or a no, and often leaves you with nothing concrete. An open question gives you something to work with: trends, possible paths, things to keep an eye on.
| Instead of… | Ask… |
|---|---|
| Is he coming back? | What energies surround our relationship right now, and what can I expect from it? |
| Will I find love? | How will my love life unfold over the next six months? |
| Should I quit my job? | What's holding me back from feeling fulfilled at work, and which direction should I take? |
| Will I make money? | What can I rely on to improve my financial situation this year? |
3. Put yourself at the center and set a time frame
A psychic reading sheds light on your path. “What does he think of me?” tells you less than “How can I bring more peace to this relationship?”. Add a time frame too: “by summer”, “over the next three months”. The answer will be more precise, and easier to look back on later.
One last test the day before: read your questions out loud. If you stumble over a sentence, shorten it.
40 questions to ask a psychic, by situation
Don't ask them all! Choose the ones that fit what you're going through, and adapt them in your own words.
You're single and love is taking its time
- What's holding back a relationship from coming into my life right now?
- What kind of person is truly right for me?
- Am I repeating a pattern in my love life?
- In what setting am I most likely to meet someone special?
- How will my love life unfold over the next six months?
You're in a relationship and having doubts
- Where does my relationship really stand today, beyond our current arguments?
- What is my partner going through right now?
- How can we rediscover our closeness as a couple?
- Do we share plans that could bring us closer together?
- What is the natural next step for our relationship?
You're going through a breakup or thinking about your ex
- What did this relationship come into my life to teach me?
- What energies still surround our bond today?
- How can I turn the page if this story is over?
- What do I need to understand before getting back in touch, or choosing not to?
- How can I regain my self-confidence after this separation?
If love is your big question right now, some people like to set a concrete intention alongside their session. That's the idea behind our love ritual box: a small ritual to do at home, to stay focused on what you truly want.
Your job is weighing on you or you want a change of direction
- Am I in the right place in my current job?
- Which of my talents am I not using enough?
- Is a career change the right direction for me right now?
- How can I improve my relationships with my team or my managers?
- What professional opportunities are taking shape over the coming months?
- Is my business idea built on solid foundations? What should I watch out for?
Money is a source of stress
- What is blocking abundance in my life?
- Over what period could my financial situation improve?
- Which expenses or habits should I rethink?
- Is this the right time for this purchase or investment?
- How can I build a calmer relationship with money?
A family relationship is causing you pain
- How can I ease the tension with this family member?
- What am I not seeing in this situation?
- How can I best support my child through what they're going through?
- Is growing our family on the horizon?
- How can I find my place between my family and my own life?
You feel lost and are searching for meaning
- What is the main message of the period I'm going through?
- What is stopping me from moving forward right now?
- What important decision do I need to face?
- What strengths can I draw on to get through this stage?
- Where is my life path calling me?
You sense things and want to understand them
- Do these intuitions and recurring dreams mean something for me?
- Do I have a particular sensitivity that I could develop?
- How can I protect myself when I feel drained by other people?
- Where should I start to gently open up to spirituality?
Questions to avoid (and why)
- “When am I going to die?” or “Am I ill?” A trustworthy psychic doesn't make diagnoses or talk about dates of death. For your health, see a doctor. Guidance can, however, help you get through a difficult time emotionally.
- Questions about someone else's private life that have nothing to do with you (“Who is he dating?”, “How much does my sister earn?”). They won't help you move forward.
- “Trick” questions to test the psychic. You're paying for a session to be helped, not to set an exam. A reading is a conversation.
- The same question asked ten times, or to five different psychics in the same week. The answers get muddled and your anxiety goes up instead of down.
- Demands for absolute certainty (“Promise me that…”). A psychic reading shows trends and possibilities. Your free will does the rest.
Before your session: a quick checklist
- Your 1 to 3 questions written on a piece of paper;
- a quiet place where no one will disturb you;
- your phone on “do not disturb” (unless you're using it for the session);
- a notebook and pen to jot down names, time frames and recurring words;
- a glass of water and three deep breaths before you begin.
If you've just been through a shock (a breakup, losing your job, bad news), wait a week or two. You'll be in a better place to hear what you're told.
Some people also like to create a little bubble for themselves: a candle, some incense, an intention object in their hand. Our intuition vial is designed for exactly that moment, when you want to reconnect with your inner sense.
How can you tell if a psychic is trustworthy?
In France, psychic readings have been a legal activity since the new Penal Code came into force in 1994. They are regulated by consumer law. The French Consumer Code prohibits misleading commercial practices (Article L121-1). The Penal Code punishes fraud (Article 313-1) and the exploitation of vulnerable people (Article 223-15-2).
Signs that should reassure you
- The price is clear before the session: per-minute rate or package, duration, payment method.
- The psychic talks about trends and possibilities, not certainties.
- She lets you leave without pushing you to book another appointment.
- She explains how she works: tarot, oracle cards, mediumship…
Red flags
- A guaranteed result: “your ex will be back within 15 days”.
- A “spell” or “curse” that must be lifted urgently for a large sum of money.
- Repeated follow-ups by text or email.
- A request for your card details over the phone with no written information about the price.
If in doubt or in the event of a dispute, you can file a report on SignalConso, the French government consumer-complaint website linked to the DGCCRF.
After your session: the notebook exercise
That same evening, open your notebook and draw three columns:
- What resonated with me straight away;
- What I don't understand yet (a name, a month, an image);
- What I can concretely do this week.
Read it again a month later. That's often when the second column starts to make sense. And remember: guidance lights up the road, but you're always the one driving.
Which option should you choose to ask your questions?
- Prefer to take your time? With a personalized video guidance, you send your questions and receive a video you can watch as many times as you like. Handy if you're worried about forgetting what was said.
- Want to see every option? All our readings are gathered in the online psychic readings and guidance collection.
- Is it your own intuitions that raise questions? Mediumship coaching with Myrianne Triade supports you for one month, with one video session per week.
Frequently asked questions
How many questions should you ask a psychic?
One to three. For a short 10 to 15-minute session, a single well-phrased question is often enough. Beyond three, each topic only gets skimmed.
Can you ask a question about your ex?
Yes, it's actually one of the most common requests. Choose a question centered on you: “What did this relationship teach me?” or “What energies still surround our bond?”. Avoid “Is he coming back?”.
Should you give the psychic information?
Your first name and date of birth are often requested, especially if the psychic uses astrology or numerology. Beyond that, simply answer her questions, without trying to catch her out.
Are psychic readings legal in France?
Yes, since 1994. They are regulated by consumer law: clear prices, no misleading commercial practices, no exploitation of vulnerable people.
Can you consult a psychic about a health question?
A psychic can support you emotionally, but she doesn't make diagnoses and is no substitute for a doctor. For any medical question, consult a healthcare professional.
Key takeaways
A good question is open-ended, is about you, and sets a time frame. Choose one to three topics and write them down in advance. Check the price before you start, and be wary of promises that sound too good to be true. After the session, take time to reread your notes. You now have 40 examples to get started: all that's left is to choose the ones that feel like you.
Ready to ask your questions? Explore our online guidance and readings.
Psychic readings are a form of support and personal development. They are not a substitute for medical, legal or financial advice.